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Sebastian in front of the Stardew Valley loading screen.

How to Romance Sebastian in Stardew Valley: Best Gifts and Schedule

Sebastian loves his computer! He is one of the easiest characters to romance because his preferences aren't complicated (but they can be hard to obtain) and he's not usually difficult to find. Let's take a look at how to get on his good side!

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How To Romance Sebastian in Stardew Valley: Best Gifts and Schedule

Sebastian isn't always playing games! He also writes sci-fi novels and guides online. Writing online is the most noble profession! *cough cough*

  • Primary Location: Demitrius and Robin's house on the Mountain.
  • Birthday: Winter 10

Gifts

Sebastian can be a bit particular about his favorite gifts. Most of them are somewhat difficult to find. However, if you take the time to find them for him, he'll grow keen on you fast.

  • All Universal Loves
  • Frozen Tear
  • Obsidian
  • Pumpkin soup
  • Sashimi
  • Void Egg

Related: How to Romance Leah in Stardew Valley: Best Gifts and Schedule - Pro Game Guides


Schedule

Stardew Valley map highlighting the Carpenter Shop.

As we mentioned, Sebastian doesn't deter too much from his normal schedule and can usually be found on his computer in his room. You won't have access to this until you reach two hearts with him. The only frustration you might run in to is he doesn't always do the same thing on rainy days. Listed below are where he will be and at what time.

Spring

  • Sunday - Wednesday (and Thursdays in first year)
    • 9:00 am - In bed.
    • 10:30 am - In his home at his computer or in the kitchen.
    • 6:30 pm - Smoking at the lake next to his house.
    • 9:30 pm - In his home.
  • On the 11th and the 25th
    • 9:00 am - In bed.
    • 10:00 am - In his home at his computer, in the kitchen, or by his couch.
    • 6:30 pm - On his computer.
    • 9:30 pm - In bed.
  • Thursday (Second year onward)
    • 9:00 am - In bed.
    • 10:30 am - At his computer.
    • 2:00 pm - Smoking by the train station.
    • 6:20 pm - Standing east of the trainstation.
    • 8:10 pm - Standing west of the train station.
    • 10:20  - In his home.
  • Friday
    • 9:00 am - In bed.
    • 10:30 am - At his computer.
    • 3:00 pm - Playing pool at the Stardrop Saloon with Sam.
    • 9:10 pm - Heading home.
    • 11:10 pm - In his home.
  • Saturday
    • 9:00 am - Heads to Sam's house.
    • 11:30 am - In front of Haley and Emily's house with Sam.
    • 12:30 pm - In Sam's room.
    • 6:00 pm - Goes with Sam to the river.
    • 7:30 pm - Heads home.
    • 9:40 pm - In his home.
  • Rainy Day (Option One)
    • 9:00 am - In his bed.
    • 10:30 am - Goes to the beach.
    • 1:30 pm - Standing on the long pier to the left of the fish shop.
    • 5:00 pm - Heads home.
    • 7:40 pm - Goes home and goes to bed.
  • Rainy Day (Option Two)
    • 9:00 am - In his bed.
    • 10:30 am - At his computer.
    • 3:00 pm - Goes to the Stardrop Saloon and stands be the red sofa.
    • 9:10 pm - Heads home.
    • 11:10 pm - In his home.

Summer

  • Sunday - Wednesday
    • 9:00 am - In bed.
    • 10:30 am - In his home at his computer or in the kitchen.
    • 6:30 pm - Smoking at the lake next to his house.
    • 9:30 pm - In his home.
  • Thursday
    • 9:00 am - In bed.
    • 10:30 am - At his computer.
    • 2:00 pm - Smoking by the train station.
    • 6:20 pm - Standing east of the trainstation.
    • 8:10 pm - Standing west of the train station.
    • 10:20  - In his home.
  • Friday
    • 9:00 am - In bed.
    • 10:30 am - At his computer.
    • 3:00 pm - Playing pool at the Stardrop Saloon with Sam.
    • 9:10 pm - Heading home.
    • 11:10 pm - In his home.
  • Saturday
    • 9:00 am - Heads to Sam's house.
    • 11:30 am - In front of Haley and Emily's house with Sam.
    • 12:30 pm - In Sam's room.
    • 6:00 pm - Goes with Sam to the river.
    • 7:30 pm - Heads home.
    • 9:40 pm - In his home.
  • On the 4th Only
    • 9:00 am - In his room.
    • 10:00 pm - Heads to the clinic.
    • 11:50 am - In the Clinic's waiting room.
    • 1:40 pm - In the Clinic's exam room.
    • 4:00 pm - Heads home.
    • 6:00 pm - Arrives home and goes to bewd.
  • Rainy Day (Option One)
    • 9:00 am - In his bed.
    • 10:30 am - Goes to the beach.
    • 1:30 pm - Standing on the long pier to the left of the fish shop.
    • 5:00 pm - Heads home.
    • 7:40 pm - Goes home and goes to bed.
  • Rainy Day (Option Two)
    • 9:00 am - In his bed.
    • 10:30 am - At his computer.
    • 3:00 pm - Goes to the Stardrop Saloon and stands be the red sofa.
    • 9:10 pm - Heads home.
    • 11:10 pm - In his home.

Autumn

  • Monday - Wednesday
    • 9:00 am - In his bed.
    • 10:30 am - At his computer.
    • 12:00 pm - At the lake next to his house.
    • 2:00 pm - At the lake outside the mine entrance.
    • 3:30 pm - Smoking at the edge of the lake close to the bridge.
    • 4:00 pm - Goes home and goes to this kitchen.
    • 6:00 pm - On his computer.
  • Thursday
    • 9:00 am - In bed.
    • 10:30 am - At his computer.
    • 2:00 pm - Smoking by the train station.
    • 6:00 pm - Standing east of the trainstation.
    • 7:30 pm - Standing west of the train station.
    • 10:20  - In his home.
  • Friday
    • 9:00 am - In bed.
    • 10:30 am - At his computer.
    • 3:00 pm - Playing pool at the Stardrop Saloon with Sam.
    • 9:00 pm - Heading home.
    • 11:10 pm - In his home.
  • Saturday
    • 9:00 am - Heads to Sam's house.
    • 11:30 am - In front of Haley and Emily's house with Sam.
    • 12:30 pm -In Sam's room.
    • 6:00 pm - Goes with Sam to the river.
    • 7:30 pm - Heads home.
    • 9:40 pm - In his home.

Winter

  • Sunday - Wednesday
    • 9:00 am - In bed.
    • 10:30 am - In his home at his computer or in the kitchen.
    • 6:30 pm - Smoking at the river east of his house.
    • 9:30 pm - In his home.
  • Saturday 
    • 9:00 am - Standing in the kitchen at Marnie's Ranch.
    • 12:00 pm - Goes to Pierre's General Store.
    • 5:00 pm - Drinking at the Stardrop Saloon.
    • 11:00 pm - Goes home and goes to bed.
  • Sunday
    • 9:00 am - Standing in the kitchen at Marnie's Ranch.
    • 2:00 am - Still standing Marnie's kitchen.
  • Monday - Friday (Community Center Restored)
    • 9:00 am - Standing in the kitchen at Marnie's Ranch.
    • 11:00 am - In his bedroom at Marnie's Ranch.
    • 12:00 pm - Standing by the fireplace at Marnie's Ranch.
    • 2:00 pm - Drinking at the Stardrop Saloon.
    • 11:00 pm - Goes home and goes to bed.

Marriage

  • Monday
    • 6:00 am - At home
    • 9:00 am - Leaves to go to the mountain through the town.
    • 10:30 am - At his usual spot by the mountain lake.
    • 1:30 pm - Visiting Robin.
    • 5:20 pm - Goes home.
    • 7:20 pm - At home.
  • Friday
    • 6:00 am - At home
    • 9:00 am - Goes to the beach.
    • 11:00 am - Standing at the end of the long pier, left of the fish shop.
    • 3:00 pm - Goes to the Stardrop Saloon.
    • 4:30 pm - Playing Pool with Sam.
    • 9:30 pm - Goes back home and goes to bed.
  • Saturday
    • 6:00 am - Working on his motorcycle behind the farmhouse.

Related: Stardew Valley Best Crops for Every Season - Spring, Summer, & Fall! - Pro Game Guides


Friendship Events

The friendship events are good way to gain or lose some affection. The great thing about Sebastian is none of your interactions during these events will change your relationship with him. Pick what you feel is best.

That's it! With all this information, you're ready to gain Sebastians's affections. He has a wonderful city skyline scene!

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