How to Romance Abigail in Stardew Valley: Best Gifts and Schedule

Purple is the color of royalty! Will you make Abigail your queen?

Although it's not officially a part of the story, there is a lot of speculation going around that Abigail's birth father is The Wizard! Don't worry, though; he won't cast spells on you when you try to gain her affection. That is...if you use this guide to impress her.

How To Romance Abigail in Stardew Valley: Best Gifts and Schedule

Abigail can be a bit moody, but in this guide, we'll make sure she is fond of you as quickly as possible. If you buy her lots of gifts (two a week!), share plenty of conversation, and be sure to celebrate with her on her birthday, then she'll be yours to marry in game!

  • Primary Location: Pierre's General Store at the top of Pelican Town Square
  • Birthday: Fall 13

Gifts

Abigail loves food that reminds her of autumn, or that matches her purple hair! This makes it easier to build a relationship with her since her birthday is in Autumn. If you give her the right gift on her birthday, it's possible to add two hearts to your friendship level.

  • All Universal Loves
  • Amethyst
  • Banana Pudding
  • Blackberry Cobbler
  • Chocolate Cake
  • Pufferfish
  • Pumpkin
  • Spicy Eel

Related: How to Romance Leah in Stardew Valley: Best Gifts and Schedule - Pro Game Guides

Schedule

Stardew Valley map highlighting Abigail's home.

Abigail has one of the busiest schedules out of any character. True to her personality, she never seems to want to keep things monotonous or simple. Wild girl, wild hair, wild schedule. Shown above is her home, but you won't always find her there. Read below to see where she will be and when.

All Seasons

  • Wednesday
    • 10:00 am - Leaves home and goes to the Museum.
    • 6:00 pm - Goes to the graveyard and stands in front of Mona's grave.
    • 10:00 pm - Goes home for the evening.
  • Friday
    • 9:00 am - In her kitchen.
    • 11:00 am - In Pierre's General Store.
    • 3:00 pm - Goes to the Stardrop Saloon and hangs out in the arcade.
    • 9:00 pm - Goes home for the evening.
  • Sunday
    • 9:00 am - In her room.
    • 10:30 am - In Caroline and Pierre's room.
    • 1:00 pm - Leaves her home and stands near the Wizard's Tower in Cindersap Forest.
    • 8:00 pm - Goes home for the evening.
  • The 6th and the 16th
    • 9:00 am - In her kitchen.
    • 10:30 am - In Pierre's General Store.
    • 3:00 pm - Goes to the mountain plays the flute on the west side of the lake.
    • 8:00 pm - Goes home and goes to bed.
  • The 11th and the 25th (Player has less than six hearts with Sebastian, not winter)
    • 9:00 am - In her bed.
    • 10:00 am - Leaves her home and goes to Sebastian's room.
    • 5:00 pm - Goes home and goes to bed.
  • The 11th or the 25th (Player has more than six hearts with Sebastian)
    • 9:00 am - In her kitchen.
    • 10:30 am - In Pierre's Store.
    • 1:00 pm - Standing on the bridge near JojaMart.
    • 4:30 pm - Goes home.
    • 5:20 pm - In her room.
    • 7:30 pm - Goes to bed.
  • Rainy Day (Option 1)
    • 9:00 am - In her room.
    • 11:00 am - In Pierre's General Store.
    • 1:00 pm - In her kitchen.
    • 3:00 pm - In her room.
    • 10:00 pm - Goes to bed.
  • Rainy Day (Option 2)
    • 9:00 am - In her kitchen.
    • 11:00 am - In Pierre's General Store.
    • 2:00 pm - Goes to the Stardrop Saloon and hangs out in the arcade.
    • 8:00 pm - Goes home for the evening.

Spring

  • Normal
    • 9:00 am - In her kitchen.
    • 10:30 am - In Pierre's Store.
    • 1:00 pm - Standing on the bridge near JojaMart.
    • 4:30 pm - Goes home.
    • 5:20 pm - In her room.
    • 7:30 pm - Goes to bed.
  • The 4th Only
    • 9:00 am - In her room.
    • 12:00 pm - Goes to the waiting room at Harvey's Clinic.
    • 1:30 pm - In the examination room at Harvey's Clinic.
    • 4:00 pm - In her room.
    • 8:00 pm - Goes to bed.

Summer

  • Normal
    • 9:00 am - In her kitchen.
    • 11:00 am - Leaves home to go wait in front of the Train Platform.
    • 2:00 pm - Goes to stand in front of the lake east of the Carpenter's Shop.
    • 5:30 pm - Goes home for the evening.

Autumn

  • Normal
    • 9:00 am - In her kitchen.
    • 10:30 am - In Pierre's General Store.
    • 1:00 pm - Goes to stand at the bus stop.
    • 5:00 pm - Goes home and goes to her room.
    • 7:30 pm - Goes to bed.
  • Monday
    • 9:00 am - In her room.
    • 11:00 am - Leaves home and goes to stand at the end of the long pier, left of the Fish Shop.
    • 6:00 pm - Goes home.
    • 7:30 pm - Goes to bed.

Winter

  • Normal
    • 9:00 am - In her kitchen.
    • 10:30 am - Goes to the Carpenter Shop and stands next to the counter.
    • 2:30 pm - Heads back home and goes to her room.
    • 7:30 pm - Goes to bed.

Marriage

  • Monday
    • 6:00 am - At home
    • 8:30 am - Leaves to go to Pierre's General Store.
    • 1:00 pm - Goes to the Graveyard and stands in front of Mona's grave.
    • 5:00 pm - Goes to the Stardrop Saloon and plays Journey of the Prairie King.
    • 8:30 pm - Goes home.
    • 10:00 pm - Goes to bed.
  • Friday
    • 6:00 am - At home
    • 9:00 am - Goes to Pierre's General Store and stands in the kitchen.
    • 11:00 am - Goes to the mountain and stands at the west side of the Mountain lake.
    • 3:00 pm - Goes to the Stardrop Saloon and hangs out in the arcade.
    • 8:30 pm - Goes back home and goes to bed.
  • Sunday
    • All day - At home.

Related: Stardew Valley Best Crops for Every Season - Spring, Summer, & Fall! - Pro Game Guides

Friendship Events

The friendship events are a good way to gain or lose some affection. Abigail has several events that could help or harm your relationship with her, but if you follow the guide below, you'll know which choices to make.

  • Four Hearts
    • Between 12:00 pm and 7:00 pm on a rainy day at the mountain, she asks what you're doing out in the rain.
      • Just doing some work. (No effect)
      • Enjoying the weather. (+50 Friendship)
      • I could ask you the same question. (+10 Friendship)
  • Six Hearts
    • Between 9:00 pm and 12:00 am in Pelican Town, she asks if you've ever used a sword.
      • Yes, and it's exciting! (+10 Friendship)
      • Yes, but only in self-defense. (+10 Friendship)
      • Yes, but it's dangerous. You should stay safe. (-100 Friendship)
      • No. (No effect)
  • Ten Hearts
    • In the Mines, after the bats scare her.
      • What happened? (+20 Friendship)
      • Are you okay? (+40 Friendship)
      • You're safe with me. (+20 Friendship)
      • I get scared too. (+40 Friendship)
      • You're crying like a little baby. Stop. (-50 Friendship)

That's it! With all this information, you're ready to gain Abigail's affections. She is one tough code to crack!

Abigail isn't the only Stardew Valley with wild hair! You can also gain Emily's affections with this guide on How to Romance Emily.

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